Dating divorce going through while
Dating during the divorce can vastly complicate the process and impact the time for ending the marriage.
Q: After I move out of the marital bedroom, am I free to date other people?
Applying for a marriage license and participating in some type of ceremony also takes time.
Why not start your new life now, rather than wait until you have a stupid piece of paper in your hand that says your divorce is official?
It doesn’t matter that your spouse cheated on you 1,000 times while you were married, and this is the first time you have even considered going for coffee with someone else.
No one cares that your divorce case has dragged on for well over a year.
It makes no difference whether you are actually sleeping with a new partner or not.
Unless your spouse is as calm and spiritually evolved as a zen master, when s/he finds out you are dating someone else, it’s going to feel like s/he just got sucker-punched in the gut.
I really care about him, and don't handle the "seeing other people" thing very well, considering we spend at least 3-4 nights a week together.